1/13/12

The Value of Prayer

Julian Baggini acknowledges the value of prayer, despite being a non-believer:
I do think that prayer, like many rituals, is something that the religious get some real benefits from that are just lost to us heathens. One reason is that many of these rituals are performed communally, as part of a regular meeting or worship. This means there is social reinforcement. But the main one is that the religious context transforms them from something optional and arbitrary into something necessary and grounded. Because the rituals are a duty to our absolute sovereign, there is strong reason to keep them up. You pray every day because you sense you really ought to, and it will be noticed if you don't. In contrast, the belief that daily meditation is beneficial motivates in much the same way as the thought that eating more vegetables or exercising is. Inclination comes and goes and needs to be constantly renewed.
Like Baggini, I can see how it could be valuable to  pray, but I'll go a step further--I can see how it could be valuable to think praying makes a difference (whether or not it really does).  Suppose someone you know has a serious illness, and you want to express concern.  I'm afraid "I'm thinking of you" doesn't convey quite the same thing as "I'm praying for you."  If you're praying, and you believe praying makes a difference, then you're not just thinking of the person, you're trying to help them.  It's better to try to help people than think of them, right? Sometimes we are in a position to pray, but can do nothing else.  We are too far away, the disease is too serious, whatever.  I have been in situations where I'd much rather be able to say "I'm praying for you."

I also think praying can be useful for the person suffering from an illness.  You'd think it could backfire. The patient might pray instead of getting all the advanced treatments. Yes, there are people who believe in prayer instead of medicine. But what I've observed (here in the religious heart of Texas) is that people who pray will also go to the ends of the earth to find a medical cure.  In fact, I believe there may be a connection, sometimes, between praying and aggressively trying to treat disease.  Prayer may sometimes give someone just the boost in hopefulness she needs to believe that further treatment might be helpful.  At least, that's how it seemed in the case of a woman I met about 15 years ago.  A mother of three young children, she prayed mightily for a cure for her breast cancer, while also seeing out every conceivable cutting edge treatment. (Sadly, she did not survive.)

You'd think maybe if a person believed God answers prayers, then she'd have to think God also causes diseases to begin with.  So she'd feel better in a way ("God may help me") but also worse ("God let me get this disease").   Could be--but not necessarily!   God is good, you might think.  The cancer is not God's doing--but the cure could be.

I couldn't possibly believe in the efficacy of prayer.  Come on--what God can cure, he could have prevented in the first place.  More overwhelmingly, it's impossible for me to believe in a God who let six million Jews die in the Holocaust, but is now on standby to help individuals with cancer.  Please. Still, it would be good in very tangible ways not only to be able to pray, but to believe it was beneficial.

5 comments:

Alan Cooper said...

" If you're praying, and you believe praying makes a difference, then you're not just thinking of the person, you're trying to help them. It's better to try to help people than think of them, right?"

Why? In what way is "trying to help" via a method that is guaranteed not to work any better than doing nothing? But actually doing nothing is not the only alternative. Praying absorbs energy and commitment which might actually be usefully applied somehow - whether it be by real action or even just by thinking. For thinking might just one time in a million lead to having an *idea* that could be helpful. And even just one in a million is better than ZERO!!!

Jean Kazez said...

"Praying absorbs energy and commitment which might actually be usefully applied somehow"

In many cases, I think that's false. Prayer doesn't replace a more effective activity--after all, it just takes a minute to say a prayer! And (as I suggested in the post), it may even increase hopefulness, making people more (not less) motivated to pursue the most aggressive medical interventions.

Achrachno said...

It seems prayer more often makes people not take the necessary medical steps because 1.) That would imply a lack of faith, or 2) Faith that having prayed all is under control because "the big guy in the sky will never let me down"

Chet said...

Well, what we know from research is that people who are prayed for and know they're being prayed for actually have worse medical outcomes than those who aren't.

So actually if you care about someone's recovery, don't tell them you're praying for them.

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